Rose's Journal

This is our family’s journal. This grew out of the e-mails that we sent to our family and friends as we first grew to know about Rose.  We would send periodic emails to keep them posted on Rose's progress It’s what we were experiencing that day with many pictures added since then. Those emails are the basis for the stories in Chapters 1 through 5.  Starting with Chapter 6, the Rose updates have been  through notes and pictures posted directly on The Rose Page website.   Each chapter is about the length of a medium to long magazine article.

I've added a  New  to indicate stories and pictures that have been added in the most recent update.  Although I'm still writing many stories on a regular basis I'm finding that I'm only managing to updates  the Rose page about once a year and when I do its a big pile of stuff..

Chapter 1    Expecting Rose – the pregnancy

 

 

 

Cheryl's pregnancy

June 1998 through February 23, 1999

Finding out from amnio test that our child would have Down Syndrome

Finding out from Ultra Sound (level 2) that our child had an endocardial cushion heart defect

 

Chapter 2    Being Born – First 4 weeks of life in the NICU

Birth to 4 weeks old

February 26, 1999 through March 25, 1999

Emergency C-section because Rose is breech

Slow start in the NICU – breast  feeding problems

Baptized in the NICU

Surgery to fix duodenal stenoses and gets her G-tube

Chapter 3    Quiet Time at Home

4 weeks old to 3 months old

March 28, 1999 through May 15, 1999

Doctor visits - cardiologist - GI surgeon - pediatrician

G-tube feedings and breast feedings

Scheduling Heart Surgery

Chapter 4    Heart Surgery – A close call and 3 weeks in the Hospital

3 months to 4 months old

May 19, 1999 through July 2, 1999

Pre-Op visit to Hospital (CCMC), First Attempt at Heart  Surgery

Second Attempt with very close call, 2 weeks in the PICU, 1 more week on the medical floor and then home again

(For more about these amazing days see 

Stories About The Day Rose Lived)

Chapter 5    Home Again – Getting stronger

 

4 months to 10 months old

July 5, 1999 through December 2 2, 1999

Loses first G-tube ... then 2nd G-tube ... then 3rd G-tube

Lifts head / rolls over / Rosefest 1999 

G-tube feedings going  to starting to eat solid food

Starting to sit up

Chapter 6    Rose turns One

 

10 1/2 months to 14 months old

January 15, 2000 through April 13, 2000

Visit to genetics doctor / G-tube replaced with button

Getting over bronchitis / Micro-bottle starts to replace G-tube feedings

1st birthday covered on evening news (yes, seriously, Miracle Baby Story)

Chapter 7   Sitting and standing

14 months to 18 months old

April 26, 2000 through August 17, 2000

Helps out with Children's Hospital Telethon

G-tube button out for good

First annual visit  with Cheryl to 8th grade science class to discuss the human side of genetics

First family camping trip

Starting to sign / Trying to stand

Chapter 8   Baby Steps With A Lot of Help

18 months to 21 months old

August 22, 2000 through November 11, 2000

Rosefest 2000  / Climbing Stairs / More camping

Eye check up / Standing while holding on

Starting to crawl / Eating more solid food

 

Chapter 9    Rose turns two

 

 

21 months to 2 years old

November 15, 2000 through February 26, 2001

Pulling herself up to stand

Signing vocabulary list - 22 words / Foods she's eating - the list

Cruising / Signs her name sign / Fewer bottles more drinks thru straw

Being Noticed / Reading children's books on signing ~ Blood Test Story

Chapter 10   First Steps on Her Own

 

 

 

2 years to 2 years 4 months old

March 1, 2001 through June 21, 2001 

New doctor in our lives

Almost walking with walker toy

How she plays / Signing vocabulary list - 60 words

Our softball friends / Another eye check up

Annual cardiologist check up

Helping with her 2nd Children's Hospital Telethon / Starting to walk

Chapter 11    Summer Time and Being Two and a half

 

 

 

2 years 4 months to 2 years 6 months old

July, 2001 through September 9, 2001

2nd annual visit to Watkinson 8th grade science class - talking with Mom about the human side of genetics

Really walking now 

First swim lessons / Summer Camping Trips

Chapter 12    Going to Grandma's House

 

 

 

2 years 7 months to 2 years 10 months old

October 11, 2001 through December 25, 2001

First School Transition Meeting / CDSC 2001 Convention

A Baby Sitter We Can Trust  / ... and a really long story about going on vacation to Florida to visit Grandma and the amazing people we met

Christmas 2001 pictures

Chapter 13    First Days of School

 

 

 

2 years 11 months to 3 years 1 month old  

January 31, 2002  through March 15, 2002 

PPT meeting 

Last Birth to 3 Session / Turning 3 Years Old

Three Year Old Check-up / Our parent's Letter to School 

Signing Vocabulary now 140 words / Starting School

Chapter 14    Our First IEP

 

 

 

3 years 2 months to 3 years 3 months old 

April 11, 2002  through May 2002

3 Year Old Check Up with Geneticist / Orthotics  / 

Eye Check Up / Anti-Biotic Allergies

Getting Our I.E.P. Goals 

Visit to Cardiologist and then follow up with the Geneticist 

 

 

Chapter 15    Summer School

 

 

 

3 years 4 months to 3 years 6 months old

June , 2002  through August, 2002 

 Big Accomplishments in Small Ways  

A Day at the Beach and Talking About Summer School

Chapter 16    Summer Vacation

 

 

 

3 years 6 months old  

August , 2002  

 A very long story about our summer vacation and an unexpected return to the PICU

New  epilog that I wrote about 6 months after the event (and took forever to edit)

 

Chapter 17    Back to School

 

 

 

3 years 7 months to 4 years 4 months old

September , 2002  through June, 2003

(mostly a photo album of the last year  - no time for any long stories)

School pictures - CDSC Convention - Back to school signing vocabulary note (+225 signs) - On the Computer - Christmas - Snowman - Cute Picture from Rose's teacher - Four Year Old Birthday - Modeling for Katie - Learning About Being a Doctor and Being a Patient - Shad Derby Day - Our Park 

Chapter 18    It's A Beautiful Day

 

 

 

4 years 5 months to 4 years 10 months old

July , 2003  through December 2003. 

A non-eventful summer vacation - more rockets - school pictures - 

The first really happy family story - 

Learning and talking about inclusion - 

The second really happy family story - 

cute pictures from Rose's school potluck dinner - 

Christmas 2003 pictures

Chapter 19    Somewhere Between Pre-K and High School

 

 

 

4 years 10 months to 5 years 5 months old

January 2004   through July 2004 

Winter fun - 

Rose's Life Lesson's: Signed and Spoken    

Turning Five Years Old !  

 Easter Pictures   - Shad Derby Day -  

A Good Dentist is Hard to Find      

Chapter 20    PPT Meetings ~ Getting Kindergarten Ready

 

 

 

4 years 10 months to 5 years 5 months old

January 2004   through July 2004 

New  Some over lap here in the chronology - These are the stories specifically about our PPT meetings to get ready for Kindergarten.  

Chapter 21    Summertime

 

 

 

5 years 5 months to 5 years 6 months old

July 2004   through August 2004  

Goodbye to my Dad and talking to Rose     

A Trip to the Zoo 

The Big Summer Camping Trip - photos

New It’s About Forgiveness

Chapter 22    Starting Kindergarten !!!

 

 

 

 5 years 7 months 

September  2004  

 First Day of Kindergarten 

Chapter 23   All New   Living Kindergarten - the personal and the political

 

 

 

 5 years 7 months to 6 years 4 months old

October 2004  through June 2005 

Follow up PPT meeting - start of Kindergarten

1st Soccer Team ~ Photo story of Florida vacation

Letter to the Editor on Inclusion ~ Turning Six years old ~ Vision for 1st Grade ~ References for 1st grade and Inclusion in general

Chapter 24    All New  Summer Camping

 

 

 

 6 years 4 months to 6 years 8 months old

July 2005 through  August 2005. 

On Assisted Living ~ Camping in Upstate New York

The Season of Denial 

Chapter 25    All New  Starting 1st Grade

 

 

 

 6 years 7 months to 6 years 10 months old

September  2005  through December 2005. 

Inclusion Talking Points ~ The Alleged "Down's Dilemma" 

Letter to the editor on Ability Grouping and Retention in Grade

BOE address on ability grouping

One Size Fits All ~ Alzheimer's and Assisted Living ~ 

Letters to The Editor: Gifted and Talented and Inclusion Is Coming

Rose and Inclusive Sports

Chapter 26    All New  On the Field of Play

 

 

 

 6 years 10 months to ...

January 2006  through ...

Rose and Inclusive Sports

Inclusion Is Coming

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